Healthy mindset→
Healthy Communication→
Healthy Relationships
Do You Struggle to Get Along With:
—Those “uncooperative” people you’re trying to lead?
–Your “clueless” team members?
—Your “stubborn” mate/child/parent?
–Those “strange” people from other cultures?
You don’t have to communicate the same old way that keeps causing misunderstandings and messing up your relationships!
I’m Julie Tofilon. I help frustrated family and team members overcome communication difficulties, so they can actually understand each other, relate well and thrive together.
Personal Development Coaching
No need to stay stuck in habit patterns and mindsets that destroy your relationships. As a coach, I’m here to help you think, speak, and listen in healthy ways that will improve your relationships.
Team Building
A business, organization, or ministry can only be as healthy as its teams. Whether you’re the team leader or a member, you need to know how to communicate, cooperate, and resolve conflict. As a coach, I’m here to help you do that.
Experience Transformation for Better Communication
Dare to experience real communication
–for real relationships
–for real progress.
Developing healthy relationships isn’t easy. I’m here to help.
Let’s walk this journey together.
Ever ask yourself, "How can I change the way I think and feel?"
Ever wonder, "How can I communicate better?"
Ever had problems relating to others?
The healthier our mindset is, the healthier we'll relate and communicate with others.
Spiritual Formation
Helping you grow in your walk with God, to become more spiritually and emotionally mature.
Marriage, Family, and More
Helping you care and communicate in better ways– in your marriage, family, friendships, and organizations.
Transition and Career
Helping you navigate what to do next when life changes and propels you into uncharted waters.
Cross-Cultural Communication
Helping you fit in where you are culturally different– to understand, be understood, and thrive.
How I Help You Bridge The Gap Between Where You Are and Where You Want to Be.
~ We begin with client intake– Enabling you to clarify and express where you want to get unstuck and move forward.
~ We meet to discuss your hopes and dreams, and set the overall agenda.
~ I ask you powerful questions and engage in active listening each time we meet, with you setting the specific agenda for each session.
~ You will receive genuine empathy, encouragement, support, and gentle guidance from me.
~Together we will explore how you can spring forth into a healthy mindset, healthy communication, and healthy relationships!
Awareness
I help you express your starting point so we both gain clear awareness of it.
Vision
I help you express and clarify your vision– where you want to arrive, and what that will be like when you get there.
Strategy
I help you strategize plans, create SMART goals, and determine time-sensitive action steps to reach those goals.
Obstacles
I help you foresee and overcome obstacles to taking action and reaching your goals.
Accountability
I will hold you accountable to carry out the strategy and action steps you’ve committed yourself to.
About Me
- Associate Certified Coach (ACC) with the International Coach Federation (ICF)
- Certified Professional Life Coach (CPLC) through an ICF- accredited school.
- Hold a Doctorate in Ministry (Leadership/Spiritual Formation), M.A. in Cross Cultural Studies, plus a Graduate Certificate in Biblical Counseling.
- Wonderfully married 37 years, with two grown godly sons, two daughters-in-love, and two sweet grandsons.
“I was blessed to be coached by Julie Tofilon on numerous occasions. Julie’s Christian faith is at the core of her being— she is a gift of Christ’s light to others. Always professional and respectful, Julie helped me in my spiritual growth. with her encouragement and compassion, I was able to refocus my priorities and place God at the center of my life. I discovered the value of connecting with God each day through prayer, scripture, and journaling— all of which continue to bring peace and balance to my full life.”
— Stacy M. — Systems Engineer/Mom
“Julie’s excellent coaching and heartfelt support fueled my passion, purpose, and commitment to obey God’s calling. I learned to not only to make SMARTER
— Carole P. — Ministry leader/Mom
“My coaching experience with Julie has been a real eye-opener. Her methods and ways with words are amazing, she makes you feel comfortable and at ease.Free Resources
ROADMAP
A decision-making guide to help you know what to do next ,and what will produce the best outcome for you.
BE ENCOURAGED
Blog articles providing encouraging truth and lessons from everyday life and God’s Word.
DISCOVERY TOOLS
- Life-Satisfaction Assessment
- How to R.A.T.E. our lives